MUSEPINI

life is chill out
do not be forced to be beautiful
life is lived alone
not because of compulsion
Make your heart to receive your life

It is a small snippet of the words that I own rope. sometimes I often think that I should not think. I so often think bad about others. I do not know what people think about me. What are good. or bad. I may be bad for letting my heart friends with rude people who will change my life. sma I prefer friends than classmates. I do not feel at home on campus. really suffer. fulfilled its duties and is always surrounded by villagers who do not know myself. buy a blackberry but do not know how to use it. buy a train, laptops, cool hp, modem, nge-kost. FOR WHAT. you that .. once the villagers who do not know myself dang do not have a heart .. aja people remain quasi-children era village ... all of you. do not you know. people are smart and clever mind would choose not to buy goods that are not useful. mark it in your mind. BASIC PEOPLE KAMPONG

121 - Antonius Marcus Aurelius, [Marcus A Verus], Emperor of Rome (161-180)
570 - Muhammed, founder of Islam, according to the Shi'a sect. Other sources suggest April 20.
1319 - Jean II, the Good, king of France (1350-64)
1538 - Giovanni P Lomazzo, Italian writer/poet (Trattato)
1564 - William Shakespeare, Stratford-on-Avon England, playwright (Hamlet)
1567 - Nicolas Forme, composer
1573 - Marie de'Medici, Queen of France
1603 - Francesco Nigetti, composer
1637 - Philip J van Lichtenbergh, Governor of Suriname, baptized
1648 - Pedro II, King of Portugal (1683-1706)
1662 - Maria Luisa of Orleans, queen consort of Spain (d. 1689)
1710 - Thomas Reid, Scottish philosopher (d. 1796)
1711 - David Hume, English empiricist/philosopher (Treatise of Human Nature)
1718 - Esek Hopkins, US, 1st commander-in-chief (US Navy)
1726 - Pasquale Paoli, Corsican freedom fighter
1774 - Christian Leopold von Buch, German geologist (d. 1853)
1776 - Joan M Kemper, Dutch lawyer (designed civil code law book)
1782 - Maria Amalia of Bourbon-Sicily, wife of Louis Phillip of Austria
1785 - John James Audubon, Haiti, bird watcher/artist
1787 - Ludwig Uhland, writer
1796 - Auguste-Matthieu Panseron, composer
1798 - Ferdinand Eugene Delacroix, French painter/lithograph/etcher (Journal)
1798 - James Beckwourth, American explorer (d. 1867)
1801 - Ambrose Dudley Mann, American diplomat (d. 1889)
1804 - Charles Goodyear, American politician (d. 1876)
1806 - Ludwig Friedrich Hetsch, composer
1808 - Martha Finley, children's book author
1812 - Alfred Krupp, German arms merchant
1820 - Alice Cary, Cincinnati, American poet (Cincinnati Sentinel)
1822 - Frederick Law Olmsted, architect/writer (designed Central Park)
1822 - Jan Albert van Eyken, composer/organist
1826 - George Hull Ward, American general (d. 1863)
1826 - Ambrose R. Wright, American Civil War General (d. 1872
1827 - Charles Edward Hovey, Bvt Major General (Union volunteers)
1834 - Artemus Ward, (Charles Farrar Browne), humorist
1834 - Horatio Richmond Palmer, composer
1836 - Erminnie Adelle Platt, US, ethnologist (Iriquois-English Dictionary)
1839 - Cyrus Hamblin, Bvt Major General (Union volunteers), died in 1867
1841 - Wilhelm Scherer, German literature historian
1856 - Sir Joseph Ward, 17th Prime Minister of New Zealand (d. 1930)
1860 - Alphonse M A J Ariëns, Dutch pastor
1863 - Arno Holz, writer
1863 - Charles Haslewood Shannon, lithographer/painter
1868 - Harold Sidney Harmsworth, 1st Viscount Rothermere/Newspaper publisher
1868 - Robert Herrick, US writer (Common lot)
1873 - Otto zur Linde, German author (Charon)
1874 - J H "Biddy" Anderson, cricketer (one Test S Africa v Australia 1902)
1875 - Syngman Rhee, South Korea, pres of South Korea (1948-60) [or Mar 26]
1878 - Ethel Griffies, actress (Billy Liar, Birds, We Live Again)
1878 - Saint Rafael Guízar Valencia, Mexican Catholic bishop
1879 - Owen Williams Richardson, England, physicist (Nobel 1928)
1880 - Mikhail Fokine, Russia, choreographer/founder of modern dance
1884 - Harry Sothern, actor (Dr Huer-Buck Rogers)
1886 - Ma Rainey, [Gertrude Pridgett], "Mother of the Blues
1886 - Ma Rainey, American singer (d. 1939)
1886 - Ğabdulla Tuqay, Tatar poet (d. 1913)
1888 - Aleksandr Mikhailov, USSR, astronomer
1888 - Anita Loos, American writer (d. 1981)
1889 - Ludwig Wittgenstein, Austria, philosopher (Tractatus)
1890 - Edgar "E Livingstone" Kennedy, US actor/director (My Old Dutch)
1893 - Anita Loos, author (Gentlemen Prefer Blondes)
1893 - Draza Mihajlovic, Serbian WWII hero and war criminal (d. 1946)
1894 - Rudolf Hess, Nazi official (d. 1987)
1896 - Ernst Udet, WWI pilot and film actor, Luftwaffe officer (d. 1941)
1897 - Olga Chekova, Russia, actress (Italian Strawhat, Cry of the Children)
1897 - Eddie Eagan, American sportsman (d. 1967)
1898 - Edward PF Eagan, Denver, boxer (Oly-gold-20)/bobsledder (Oly-gold-32)
1898 - John Grierson, documentary film maker
1898 - Vicente Aleixandre, Spain, writer (Ambito, Bird of Paper, Nobel 1977)
1899 - Guinn "Big Boy" Williams, TX, actor (Hoedown, Country Fair, Blackmail)
1900 - Charles Richter, Ohio, Earthquakes seismologist (Richter scale)
1900 - Douglas Sirk, director (Zu Neuen Ufern, Boefje)
1900 - James Sutherland, English literature scholar/actor (Rob Roy 1953)
1900 - Hack Wilson, American baseball player (d. 1948)
1903 - Geoffrey Worthington, Air vice-marshall
1903 - Niven Busch, US screenwriter (Postman Always Rings Twice)
1904 - Paul E "Cardinal" Leger, archbishop (Montreal)
1904 - William "Count" Basie, jazz pianist (Policy Man, Blazing Saddles)
1905 - Charles K Feldman, [Gould], NYC, producer (Casino Royale)
1905 - Denis O'Dea, Dublin, actor (Esther & the King, Treasure Island)
1905 - Jean Vigo, France, actor/director (Zero For Conduct, L'Atlante)
1906 - Gracie Allen, Mrs George Burns, comedienne (George Burns Show)
1906 - Leopold Spinner, composer
1907 - Theun de Vries, writer (February; PC Hooft prize 1981)
1909 - Richard Howorth, cricketer (English all-rounder, three county doubles)
1910 - Erland von Koch, composer
1910 - Ernst Tittel, composer
1910 - Johan Doorn, Dutch journalist/resistance fighter (Orange Newspaper)
1910 - Tomoyuki Tanaka, director (Godzilla)
1911 - Marianne Hoppe, Rostock Germany (Bei Thea, Liebrauen)
1912 - A[lfred] E[lton] van Vogt, Canada, sci-fi author (Wizard of Linn)
1912 - A. E. van Vogt, Canadian writer (d. 2000)
1914 - Bernard Malamud, US, novelist (Fixer, Natural, Pulitizer 1967)
1914 - Charlie Chester, British comedian (Never Say Die)
1914 - Horace Leonard Gold, Sci-Fi writer/editor
1914 - James William Rouse, US builder (shopping malls/Columbia, Maryland)
1914 - Wilfred Howard Mellers, composer
1916 - Arnoldus Christian Vlok van Wyk, composer
1916 - Morris L West, Australia, novelist (Shoes of the Fisherman)
1916 - Vic Perrin, American actor (d. 1989)
1917 - I[eoh] M[ing] Pei, Canton, China, architect (1961 Brunner Prize)
1917 - Sal "The Barber" Maglie, pitcher (NY Giants, 8th best won-lost pct)
1917 - I.M. Pei, Chinese-born architect
1918 - Fanny Blankers-Koen, Holland, 100m/200m dash, hurdler (Olym-gold-1948)
1918 - Jack Morpurgo, American Literature scholar (Leeds University)
1918 - Stafford Repp, Calif, actor (Chief O'Hara-Batman, Plunder Road)
1920 - Juan C Lampe, Aruba, pianist/composer
1921 - Harry Knutton, Maj-Gen/dir-general (London City & Guilds Institute)
1921 - Jimmy Giuffre, jazz musician
1921 - Margaret Gowing, professor (history, science)
1922 - James Holt, medieval historian
1922 - Margaret Scott, founder (Australian Ballet School)
1922 - Mike Kellin, Hartford Ct, actor (Honestly Celeste, Fitz & Bones)
1922 - Paul-Andre Gaillard, composer
1922 - Pol Bury, Belgian sculptor
1922 - Jeanne Sauvé, French Canadian politician (d. 1993)
1923 - Oliver Millar, Surveyor (Queen's Pictures)
1924 - Russell Nype, Zion Ill, singer/actor (Burton Farley-Dorothy)
1925 - Jørgen Ingmann, Danish musician
1926 - David Coleman, sports commentator
1926 - Michael Joughin, CEO (Scottish Hydro-Electric)
1926 - Oldrich Frantisek Korte, composer
1926 - Preston "Bob" Tisch, NFL co-owner (NY Giants)
1926 - Michael Mathias Prechtl, German illustrator (d. 2003)
1927 - Anne McLaren, biologist/zoologist/actress (Things to Come)
1927 - Jack Douglas, comedian (My Brother Was an Only Child, Jack Paar Show)
1928 - Gordon Downey, British Comptroller General/Reader Rep (Independent)
1929 - Richard Mitchell, American author and professor (d. 2002)
1930 - Derek Waring, actor (Barnacle Bill, Arthur-Heart of the Country)
1930 - Justin Gosling, principal (St Edmund Hall Oxford)
1930 - Roger Moens, Belgium, 800m runner (Olympic-silver-1960)
1932 - Francis Lai, French film music composer
1932 - Michael Smith, English-born chemist, Nobel laureate (d. 2000)
1933 - Carol Burnett, San Antonio Tx, comedian/actress (Annie, 4 Seasons)
1933 - Filiberto Ojeda Ríos, Puerto Rican activist (d. 2005)
1934 - J Micheal McCloskey, environmentalist/chairman (Sierra Club)
1936 - Edward Cazalet, British High Court Judge
1937 - Robert Boozer, Omaha Neb, basketball player (Olympic-gold-1960)
1938 - Duane Eddy, Phoenix, Az, country singer (Peter Gunn, Cannonball)
1938 - Maurice Williams, rocker
1938 - Willie Wood, bowler
1939 - Roger Buckley, British High Court Judge
1940 - Giorgio Moroder, composer (Let it Ride, Cat People, Top Gun)
1941 - John Battle, MP
1941 - John Mitchell, American composer
1942 - Bobby Rydell, Phila Pa, rock singer (Wild One, Bye Bye Birdie)
1942 - Claudine Auger, Paris France, Miss France (1958)/actress (Thunderball)
1942 - Vitali Andreyevich Grishchenko, Russia, cosmonaut
1942 - Michael Kergin, Canadian diplomat
1943 - Claudine Auger, Miss France (1958)/actress (Thunderball)
1943 - Gary Wright, singer, dream weaver (Spooky Tooth-It's All About)
1943 - Peter Zumthor, Swiss architect
1944 - Bruce Johnston, US pop musician (Beach Boys-God Only Knows) [or 6/24]
1944 - David O'B Martin, (Rep-R-NY, 1981- )
1944 - Martha Rockwell, Providence RI, skier (Mount Washington)
1944 - Amien Rais, Indonesian politician
1945 - Giorgio Moroder, producer/singer/songwriter (150 gold discs)
1945 - V K Ramaswamy, cricketer (Indian Test umpire stood in 1996 World Cup)
1945 - Sylvain Simard, Quebec politician
1947 - Donna Elizabeth De Varona, Greenwich Ct, swimmer (Olympic-2 gold-64)
1947 - Gervase Frank Ashworth Jackson-Stops, architectural adviser
1947 - Warren Clarke, English actor
1948 - Boyd Matson, TV host/correspondent (National Geographic Explorer)
1948 - Gerry Sikorski, (Rep-D-MN, 1983- )
1949 - Jimmy Hall, rocker (Wet Willie)
1949 - Carlos Bianchi, Argentinian footballer
1949 - Jerry Blackwell, American wrestler (d. 1995)
1950 - Howard "Leon" Reeder, rock guitarist (Champaign)
1950 - Peter Schaufuss, director of ballet (Deutsche Opera Berlin)
1951 - Lynne Jones, MP
1952 - Popo Simon Molefe, secretary-general (South Africa UDF)
1955 - Mike Scott, American baseball player
1956 - Koo Stark, [Kathleen Dee-Anne], photographer/actress (Emily)
1958 - Giancarlo Esposito, actor (Bob Roberts, School Daze, King of NY)
1958 - Johnny "Earl of" Dumfries, racing driver
1958 - John Crichton-Stuart, 7th Marquess of Bute
1958 - Jeffrey Guterman, American mental health counselor
1959 - Ann O'Neill, Toowoomba QLD, golfer (1989 Downs District Champ)
1959 - John Corabi, American Musician
1960 - Roger Taylor, rock drummer (Duran Duran-Hungry Like the Wolf)
1961 - Albert Lawrence, Jamaica, 4X100m relayer (Olympic-silver-1984)
1961 - Joan Chen, [Chen Chong], Shanghai China, actress (Heaven & Earth)
1961 - Nancy Scranton, Centralia IL, golfer (1991 du Maurier Ltd Classic)
1962 - Graham "Skin" Skinner, rocker (Hipsway)
1962 - Michael Damian, San Diego, singer (Rock on)/actor (Young & Restless)
1962 - Colin Anderson, English footballer
1962 - Debra Wilson, American actress and comedian
1963 - Bill Wennington, NBA center (Chicago Bulls)
1963 - Michael Damian, actor/singer (Joseph & Amazing Technicolor Dreamcoat)
1963 - Thomas Searle, hockey defenseman (Team Austria 1998)
1963 - Jet Li, Chinese martial artist
1964 - Tod Bass, LA Calif, actor (Rowan & Martin's Laugh-In)
1965 - Kevin James, American comedian
1966 - Andrea Temesvari, Budapest Hungary, tennis star (1985 US Clay Courts)
1966 - Yoshihiro Togashi, Mangaka who created YuYu Hakusho
1967 - Klaus Merk, Augsburg GER, hockey goaltender (Team Germany 1998)
1967 - Matt Peterson, Chicago IL, Nike golfer (1992 Hawkeye Open-7th)
1967 - Marianne Jean-Baptiste, Academy Award nominated British actress
1967 - Glen Jacobs, American professional wrestler
1968 - Ahmed Elmaghraby, Suez Egypt, US field hockey forward (Olympics-96)
1970 - Melania Trump, Slovenian model
1970 - Tionne "T-Boz" Watkins, American singer (TLC)
1971 - Ryan Yarborough, NFL wide receiver (Baltimore Ravens, NY Jets)
1971 - Jay DeMarcus, American bassist (Rascal Flatts)
1972 - Francisco Cordova, Veracruz Mexico, pitcher (Pitts Pirates)
1972 - Marco Rivera, NFL/WLAF guard (Scot Claymores, GB Packers-Superbowl 31)
1972 - Natrone Means, NFL running back (SD Chargers, Jacksonville Jaguars)
1972 - Avi Nimni, Israeli Footballer
1972 - Kiko Narváez, Spanish footballer
1973 - Damien Munoz, Miss USA-Colorado (1997)
1973 - Mark Davis, NBA guard/forward (Phila 76ers, Minnesota Timberwolves)
1973 - Tracy Kathleen Hayes, Wheaton Ill, Miss America (Illinois-5th-1996)
1973 - Chris Perry, English footballer
1974 - Ivana Milicevic, Croatian-American actress
1974 - Adil Ray, English radio presenter (BBC Asian Network)
1975 - Jabbar Threats, defensive end (Jacksonville Jaguars)
1975 - Trudi Ferguson, Miss Universe-Jamaica (1996)
1975 - Nathan "Joey" Jordison, American musician (Slipknot)
1975 - Nerina Pallot, British singer
1976 - Sarah Tueting, ice hockey goalie (USA, Oly-98)
1977 - Jason Earles, American actor
1977 - Kosuke Fukudome, Japanese baseball player
1977 - Chris Johnston, Irish rugby player
1977 - Tom Welling, American actor
1978 - Avant, American singer
1978 - Joe Crede, American baseball player
1978 - Peter Madsen, Danish footballer
1979 - Sean Fox, actor (3 Ninjas Kick Back, Calendar Girl)
1979 - Janne Wirman, Finnish musician (Children of Bodom)
1979 - Ariane Moffatt, Quebec singer and songwriter
1980 - Jordana Brewster, Panama, actress (Nikki Graves-As the World Turns)
1980 - Marne Patterson, Sherman Oaks Cal, actress (Nicole-Something So Right)
1980 - Channing Tatum, American actor
1981 - Matthieu Delpierre, French footballer
1981 - Ms. Dynamite, English musician
1982 - Joanne Gobure, Nauruan poet
1982 - Cooper Wallace, National Football League tight end
1982 - Brock Gillespie, American basketball player
1982 - Jon Lee, British singer (S Club)
1983 - José María López, Argentine racing driver
1983 - Jessica Lynch, American P.O.W.
1984 - Ryan O'Donohue, Pomona Ca, actress (Byrds of Paradise, Boys are Back)
1984 - Mija Martina, Bosnian singer
1985 - John Isner, American Tennis player
1985 - Nam Gyu-Ri, Korean singer, member of See Ya
1987 - Jessica Lee Rose, American-born New Zealand actress, famous YouTube star lonelygirl15

Nah bagi yang sudah terjangkiti penyakit lupa dan mengganggu anda juga orang sekitar anda, maka tidak ada salahnya untuk ikuti, sejumlah tips berikut ini untuk mengobati secara berangsur penyakit lupa anda

1. Tidak ada salahnya untuk membawa catatan kecil atau notes, gunakan untuk mencatat rencana kamu
2. Lakukan latihan otak, dengan mengingat-ingat apa rencana yang kamu telah buat
3. Kemudian tulis di catatan kecil (notes)
4. Kerjakan apa yang telah kamu tulis di notes tersebut
5. Andaikata, kamu lupa membawa catatan (kan pelupa:P), maka inget-inget apa yang telah kamu tulis di catatan itu
6. Semoga penyakit lupa anda berangsur hilang hingga hilang sama sekali
7. Jika belum juga hilang, maka lakukan lagi langkah pertama

KOMPAS.com - Saat ini tampaknya banyak orang yang mudah marah atau terpancing emosinya. Bisa jadi marah karena masalah yang besar atau bahkan marah karena hal yang sepele. Contoh yang dapat kita lihat dalam kehidupan sehari – hari misalnya adalah kemarahan di jalan raya. Seseorang yang sedang berkendara atau berjalan kaki, yang semula tenang dapat berubah dan marah – marah karena ada pengendara lain yang memotong jalan atau hampir menabraknya. Kejadian yang lebih parah adalah ketika akhirnya hari itu menjadi kacau akibat kemarahan tersebut.

Pertanyaan yang muncul berikutnya adalah apakah seseorang tidak boleh marah? Apakah amarah selalu berakibat buruk?
Jawabannya adalah seseorang boleh saja marah dan amarah tidak selalu harus berakibat buruk. Tetapi bagaimana caranya agar amarah tidak membuat kacau dan justru malah bermanfaat bagi seseorang? Ini yang perlu kita pelajari.

Amarah adalah salah satu bentuk emosi yang dimiliki oleh seseorang. Emosi sendiri memiliki kekuatan yang sangat dahsyat untuk membangun atau menghancurkan kehidupan seseorang. Ketika emosi dikelola dengan baik, kekuatannya dapat membangun kehidupan seseorang menjadi lebih baik, tetapi begitu juga sebaliknya ketika emosi tidak dikelola dengan baik.

Marah yang bermanfaat adalah marah yang tepat dan sudah dikelola dengan baik. Hal ini jelas tidak mudah, butuh waktu, kesabaran dan hati yang lapang, tapi bukan berarti tidak dapat dilakukan. Langkah pertama yang perlu dilatih terus menerus adalah menyadari ketika kita merasa marah.

Sadari bahwa saat ini aku sedang marah. Proses menyadari adalah langkah awal untuk mengendalikan dan mengelola amarah.
Setelah menyadari, seseorang perlu memahami dan menerima alasan kenapa ia marah. Inilah langkah yang kedua, proses memahami dan menerima bahwa ada sesuatu yang membuatnya marah.

Termasuk dalam proses memahami adalah mengevaluasi penyebab kemarahannya. Seorang Ibu yang baru pulang bekerja mulai merasa marah ketika anaknya yang masih balita merengek – rengek padanya, padahal ia merasa sangat lelah. Ibu ini dapat saja langsung memarahi anaknya dan meminta anaknya untuk tidak mengganggunya. Tetapi hal tersebut dapat berbuntut anak tambah menangis dan si-Ibu semakin frustasi.

Ketika si-Ibu mau mencoba menyadari, kemudian mencoba memahami kejadian tersebut, ia akan dapat melihat bahwa anaknya merengek – rengek bukan karena nakal, tetapi anaknya rindu padanya.

Berdasarkan kisah dari beberapa orang, terungkap bahwa terkadang sesuatu yang membuat marah justru punya alasan atau maksud yang berbeda. Banyak yang menyesal karena sudah marah – marah untuk alasan yang tidak tepat, misalnya marah karena ada orang yang menunjuk – nunjukkan jari padanya, padahal orang tersebut bermaksud memberitahu bahwa ada bahaya yang mengancamnya dari belakang. Alasan sebenarnya inilah yang perlu kita pahami agar tidak asal marah dan buang – buang energi.

Langkah yang ketiga adalah mengelola atau mengekspresikan amarah dengan tepat. Jika kita punya alasan yang tepat, misalnya bukan hanya meluapkan emosi, tetapi juga demi pembelajaran bagi orang lain, kita dapat mengungkapkan kemarahan kita.

Kemarahan yang bermanfaat tentu saja bukan kemarahan yang ingin membalas atau menyakiti orang lain, melainkan marah yang mendidik dan membangun.

Cara lain yang dapat kita lakukan adalah mengelola dengan mengubah amarah yang kita rasakan menjadi hal yang positif bagi diri kita. Kita dapat mencoba melihat sisi positif dari kejadian yang membuat kita marah, mengambil hikmah atau pembelajaran dari kejadian tersebut.

Kita juga dapat mengubah energi kemarahan yang kita rasakan menjadi energi yang dapat memotivasi kita melakukan hal yang bermanfaat. Daripada marah – marah pada pengendara motor yang memotong jalan dan sudah tidak tampak lagi, lebih baik energi yang ada digunakan untuk lebih waspada, mencermati jalan, menyalurkan hobi menyanyi, atau menyelesaikan pekerjaan di kantor.

Intinya adalah jangan terjebak pada kemarahan yang dapat merusak hari dan diri kita, tetapi manfaatkanlah kemarahan dengan cara yang tepat. Sadari, pahami dan kelola dengan tepat emosi marah yang kita rasakan karena kemampuan ini adalah bagian dari kecerdasan emosi yang kita miliki. 

Suatu hari seekor gajah melihat seekor burung kolibri berbaring telentang di atas tanah.
Kedua kaki burung kolibri yang sangat kecil itu terangkat ke udara. “Apa yang sedang kau lakukan di situ, burung kolibri?” tanya Gajah.
Jawab burung kolibri. “Aku mendengar langit akan runtuh hari ini. Jika itu terjadi, aku siap menyumbangkan tenagaku untuk menahannya.”
Gajah tertawa terbahak-bahak, mengejek si burung kolibri. “Apa kau pikir, kedua kaki kecilmu itu sanggup menahan langit?”
“Tidak jika sendirian,” burung kolibri mengakui.
“Tapi, masing-masing harus melakukan sesuai dengan kemampuannya. Dan inilah yang dapat aku lakukan.”